Does this sound familiar? ‘You’re a Latina/o? But you speak so well!’

by Moctezuma Cortés on October 4, 2013 in Cultura

nomexicansIf you are Latina or Latino, you may have heard comments such as, “Wow, you speak so well… You are not like them… You are really smart… OR You are different and they will really like you.”

You might even be asked repeatedly where you are from if your first answer is a city or state in the U.S.

Remarks like these are called microagressions, according to Silvia L. Mazzula, PhD (Asst. Professor of Psychology at John Jay College of Criminal Justice, CUNY).

These …”subtle forms of racism,” she writes, “…communicate hostile and racial insults. Microaggressions are things said or done – many times unconsciously – that reflect a person’s inner thinking, stereotypes and prejudices. They are difficult to recognize because they are brief, innocuous, and often difficult to see. Why are they important to talk about? Because microaggressions are pervasive and have a detrimental impact on people’s psychological and physiological well-being.”

More from Mazzula:

My colleague, Dr. Kevin Nadal, and I recently presented a paper at the 2013 APA Convention on Latinas/os’ experiences with microaggressions1. Our findings prove microaggressions are very real experiences for many Latinos/as living in the United States.

Almost all of our participants, 98%, had experienced some type of microaggression within the last six months! We also found that when people experience microaggressions, they tend to experience mental health issues like depression and a more negative outlook of the world.

Continued at the American Psychological Association.

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Sam MB October 4, 2013 at 8:18 AM

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH this drives me nuts. I’ve been asked so often in IL and AZ where I was from… “Texas.” “Yeah, your family?” “Texas.” “Oh. Yeah.. and your grandparents, they were from?” “Texas.” I’ve been asked this by Latinas and Latinos, ‘white’ people, brown people of all colors. I’ve spoken to in hushed tones by my Mexican-American or recent immigrant students “Um, you speak Spanish?” because I can correctly pronounce Mexican last names (and most from other countries!). My English is pretty damn good, my Spanish getting better (hard to get PhD in English and try to recover all the Spanish I *should* have learned had my dad not been so damn self-hating thanks to the schools). I’m Pochismo personified, and it’s ok. BUT STOP ASKING MORE THAN ONCE WHERE I’M FROM. Or I WILL go all Texas on your smartass.

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